Atheist Attic Visitor Profile
What is your name? (Real or pseudo)
What is your date of birth?
What is your gender?
What is your race?
What is your e-mail address? (optional)
What is the name and URL of your homepage? (optional)
Where do you live? (City, State, Country)
Harveyville, Kansas USofA
How would you best describe your form of freethought? (Atheist, Agnostic, Humanist, etc.)
Were you raised as a freethinker or to be religious?
I was raised a Mormon. My mother took me to church every Sunday, which I
hated. Skipped church every chance I got and went to "worship" at the Qwik
shop a couple of blocks down the street. When I turned 16 I refused to go
anymore.
What originally set you on the path to freethought?
From early childhood on, I felt religion couldn't do anything for me
that I couldn't do for myself. What made me take the stand I take today was
a brutal sex murder in a small town nearby. A preacher's 12 year old daughter
was viciously raped and killed by a 24 year old sexual predator, who was out
on parole 1 month from prison. They found the killer at a relative's house
he was staying at, and found this girl's body tied up and hanging from a
rafter in their garage. The media interviewed this girl's preacher father
later, who was quoted as saying, "It was Gods will." That remark made me
want to go slap some sense into this pathetic preacher, and tell him it was
not "God's will," it was the will of a young man with rape and murder on his
mind. If it was "God's will," as he believed, why would he worship a God who
let a man brutally rape and kill his daughter?? The worst part is that he
can accept that and passively do nothing about it. I was mad as hell. I've
never been the same from that moment on.
When did you "come out" as a freethinker to family/friends/public, and how did it go over?
My wife isn't comfortable with it and avoids the issue. My kids can
accept me as I am... kids are good at that. My mother is very religious, and I
don't feel the need to tell her. If she asks, I will tell her I am an atheist. My dad has never gone to church, never mentioned religion, he just wants to be free to do his own thing without any hassles. My siblings don't know and don't care. My friends know I want no part of god or religion, and the subject is never brought up. I feel no need to express myself publicly as long as my beliefs aren't challenged publicly.
Do you feel it necessary to continue to hide your beliefs in any circumstances, and if so, why?
When asked my beliefs, I will not hide them.
Have you ever been the victim of discrimination or abuse because of your beliefs?
In what types of freethought activism, if any, do you participate?
None, but considering so. Too many things are going on that I'd like to
be able to do something about. I tend to be more active when things affect
me personally.
What do you feel is the best part of being a freethinker?
The best part is I'm at peace with myself, I feel good about myself.
Things make sense, fit into place, are somewhat logical.
What do you feel is the worst part of being a freethinker?
The scorn some people feel towards us, and the notion these people have
that they have to change you, make you see the light, and the light has to
be to their liking.
What is the societal atmosphere for freethinkers where you live?
I live in a small town, and for the most part people accept me. If
there are some that dislike me because I'm an atheist, then they are keeping
it to themselves thus far and I don't know about it.
How do you define "freedom of religion" and do you think your country attempts to grant this?
To me there is no such thing as freedom, the only freedom we have is
our minds. Our will and choice is to me the only freedom we have. Our
country is forever telling us what and how to believe.
If you could share one thought with whoever might read this profile of you, what would it be?
Jean-Paul Sartre sums it best for me. "Man can count on no one but
himself; he is alone, abandoned on Earth in the midst of his infinite
responsibilities, without help, with no other aim than the one he sets for
himself, with no other destiny than the one he forges for himself on this
Earth."
